Community Guidelines
Tonyte exists to help you find real events, real plans, and real people worth spending an evening with. That only works if the community feels safe, genuine, and welcoming — so here's what we expect from everyone using Tonyte, in plain language. These Guidelines are part of our Terms of Service — breaking them is breaking the Terms.
Last updated: 8 August 2026Be respectful
Treat other people the way you'd want to be treated at an event you're excited about. Disagreements happen; cruelty doesn't need to. Don't demean, threaten, or deliberately upset other users — in chat, on a profile, at an event, or anywhere else Tonyte connects people.
Be authentic
Your profile should reflect the real you — honest photos, accurate details, and a genuine bio. If you're organizing or attending an event, keep the information you share truthful: real times, real locations, real intentions. Authenticity is what makes Tonyte work, so bring it to everything you post.
No harassment
Repeated unwanted contact, following someone from event to event to make them uncomfortable, sending unwanted explicit messages, or targeting someone after they've asked you to stop are all harassment, and they're not welcome here. If someone blocks you or asks you to stop, stop.
No hate speech
Content that attacks, demeans, or incites hostility against someone based on race, ethnicity, national origin, religion, disability, age, sexual orientation, gender identity, or any other protected characteristic has no place on Tonyte, in any form — profile content, chat, event descriptions, or anything else.
No spam
Don't use Tonyte to mass-message people you don't know, flood chats or event listings with repetitive content, or use the platform primarily to promote something unrelated to genuinely connecting with people or discovering events. This includes commercial advertising, unsolicited promotions, referral or affiliate schemes, and repeated promotional messaging that falls outside legitimate Partner activity on the Partner Dashboard. If it feels like you're broadcasting instead of connecting, it's probably spam.
No fake events
Every event on Tonyte should be a real thing, actually happening, at the time and place listed. Don't post events that don't exist, that you have no intention of holding, or that are designed to lure people somewhere under false pretenses. This applies to every user and every Partner organizer alike.
No impersonation
Be you. Don't create a profile pretending to be someone else — a real person, a public figure, a business you're not affiliated with, or a fictional persona designed to deceive. Your profile should represent you honestly.
No fraud
Don't use Tonyte to scam, deceive, or extract money, personal information, or anything else from other users under false pretenses — including fake ticket sales, fake giveaways, or any request for payment outside a legitimate, disclosed arrangement with an event organizer.
No illegal content
Don't post, share, organize, or promote anything through Tonyte that's illegal where it takes place — this includes illegal goods, services, or activities of any kind. This applies to every user and every Partner organizer alike.
No adult content
Tonyte's community includes users as young as 16. Sexually explicit content, nudity intended to be sexual in nature, and content soliciting sexual services are not permitted anywhere on Tonyte — profiles, chat, event listings, or anything else — regardless of your own age or the age of the person you're speaking with.
Event safety
Organizers are responsible for the events they publish being accurately described and reasonably safe for the activity involved. All users — attendees and organizers alike — are responsible for their own judgment and safety when attending an in-person event or plan. Tonyte doesn't vet organizers, attendees, or venues, so use the same common sense you'd use meeting anyone new: meet in public first, tell someone where you're going, and trust your instincts if something feels off. If a situation ever feels unsafe, leave — trust that instinct over politeness — and contact local emergency services if appropriate.
Reporting
If you see something that breaks these Guidelines, report it — either the user or the event, directly from the app. Reports go to Tonyte administrators for review; you don't need to confront anyone yourself. You can also block any user at any time, which stops them from contacting or matching with you, no report required.
Enforcement
When we review a report, we look at the context and decide what's proportionate. Depending on what happened, that can range from a warning, to removing specific content, to temporarily suspending an account, to permanently terminating it — as described in the Terms of Service, Section 9. Serious violations (harassment, fraud, illegal content, content endangering someone's safety) can result in immediate suspension or termination without a prior warning. Repeated minor violations can also lead to suspension or permanent termination, even where no single incident would justify it on its own.
If you believe an enforcement decision was made in error, you can contact us at hello@tonyte.app to request a review.
We'd rather you never need to see the enforcement side of these Guidelines — most people on Tonyte never do. Treat this community the way you'd want it to treat you, and it will. Be someone worth meeting.